I had a funny idea cross my mind this morning and I thought
Id share it with you all. So as Im walking to my car this morning I realized
how life changes without you realizing it. So every morning I get up and go for
a run as Phil goes to work. We leave the apartment together and kiss goodbye
and I head to the gym and he heads to work. As I threw my bag in the car to go
to work today I realized that I used to throw my bag into the car to go to
school. I remember how incredibly
excited I was to finally have a drivers license. I remember going to pick up my
friend Teresia to go for the inaugural drive. She had taken me for one on
county rd G when she got hers so I picked her up for mine. It was incredible. Then school started and I
drove to school every day often going faster than I should most of the time. I’d
park in my designated spot and walk into the school feeling like I owned the
place because now I could drive hahah. Now I don’t even think twice about
getting up in my own apartment, cooking my own breakfast with food I bought at
the grocery store or farmers market, brushing my teeth in my bathroom or
heading to work in my car… What a grown up thing to say right? I went to work
today…. I mean Ive been working since I was little. I babysat until I was 16
then I immediately started waiting tables which I did until a year ago just to
support myself. Some summers I had multiple jobs working at the hospital and the
diner or working at the bees and running the school phone system, odd and end
jobs here and there just to put myself through school and pay my bills but now something
feels different. I wake up to the man of my dreams. I put myself together and
run in the morning. Head off to work and come home around five. I cook dinner
and eat with Phil before settling down for the night. Sometimes going out to
play with him or sometimes hanging out in the reading chair working on my
latest novel. Whatever it is it just feels different now. Phil and I talk about
houses and rent and mortgages and car payments and gas prices and politics and
stuff I used to think was all grown up nonsense. Ive always paid my own car
payments and insurance and stuff like that but yet it feels different now… Isnt
that the strangest thing?
We went to a wedding this past weekend with his cousin
getting married. I caught the bouquet and I couldn’t help but think… She gets
to throw this thing to me and she never has to think about catching one ever
again… She will wake up tomorrow morning married…. I wonder if she feels
different at all or if the happiness just continues forever…. Its just
something kind of fun to think about I guess….
Everything I do on a daily basis now…. Will I look back at
it ten years from now and have the same conversation with myself that I had
this morning… Will I have kids and a home and a husband and will I walk to the
car in the morning carrying a sleeping child to take to daycare and look at my
car and laugh and say… wow I remember when it was just me coming to the car in
the morning and driving to work after waking up at that tiny little apartment
in oxford. Hahahah who knows…. Maybe one
day this will all seem like a distant memory just like getting my drivers
license seems like it was a lifetime ago…..
Check back in ten years and Ill let you know hahaha
God Bless
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